The Spoon Drawer: Farm Show Tips for Neurospicy Families, Sensory Needs, and Mobility Challenges
Let’s get real for a second—the Farm Show is amazing, but it’s also a sensory overload buffet. Bright lights, loud crowds, strange smells (hello, goat pen), and the constant hum of excitement can be A LOT for anyone, let alone for our neurospicy kiddos or those with mobility or sensory needs. So here’s your guide to surviving—and maybe even thriving—at the Farm Show, spoon by spoon.
💖 First Things First: It’s OK to Skip It
As much as my other kids adore the Farm Show, it’s not a good fit for my Rhysie. The crowds, noise, and general chaos are overwhelming for him, so he gets a special day with Dad while I tackle the Farm Show with the rest of the crew. And you know what? That’s 100% OK. If this isn’t the right outing for your family, skip it without guilt. There’s no rule that says every kid has to love loud chickens and tractor square dancing.
🎧 Bring the Noise... Canceling Headphones
If you’re bringing a sensory-sensitive kiddo, pack those noise-canceling headphones or earplugs. They can turn the cacophony of mooing cows and carnival barkers into a tolerable hum. Plus, you look super prepared, which earns you imaginary parent points.
🏃♀️ Mobility and Stamina Hacks
- Strollers and Wagons: Even if your kid is on the edge of being too old, bring the stroller or wagon. It’s a LOT of walking, and you’ll be grateful for the option to give tired legs a break—or to have somewhere to stash coats and milkshakes.
- Manual Wheelchairs: Free wheelchairs are available on a first-come, first-serve basis at the security desk. They’re a great option if stamina might be an issue.
- Know the Elevators: There are elevators in the main lobby to help you avoid stairs. Study the map so you can find the fastest route.
🛑 Scout the Low-Stimulation Zones
The Farm Show has quiet shelters for anyone who needs a break. These low-stimulation spaces are a godsend for kids (and parents) who get overwhelmed. If you can’t find one, create your own safe space—like a corner booth near the food court or an empty hallway. Bonus points if it comes with snacks.
👕 Dress for Success (and Survival)
- Bright, eye-catching clothing makes it easier to keep track of your kids in the crowd. Think neon hats or jackets. If your kiddo’s not into the highlighter look, snap a picture of them before you go in case they wander off.
- Layers are key. It’s cold outside but warm inside. Be prepared for “I’m hot, I’m cold, I’m hot again” commentary all day.
🚻 Bathrooms, Bathrooms, Bathrooms
Scout the nearest restroom the second you walk in. There’s nothing worse than a potty emergency with no map in hand. If your kiddo isn’t a fan of public restrooms, consider a pre-show bathroom pep talk (or just a solid bribe).
🍟 Bring Familiar Snacks
While Farm Show food is incredible, it’s not always friendly for picky eaters or kids with dietary restrictions. Pack a few tried-and-true snacks to keep everyone happy. Plus, you’ll be prepared when someone melts down in line for milkshakes.
🐐 Manage Expectations
- Let your kids know ahead of time what the Farm Show will be like—crowds, smells, noise, and all. YouTube videos or pictures can help them visualize the experience.
- Discuss the plan: what they can touch (yay, goats!), what they can’t touch (boo, roosters!), and what they’ll do if they get separated.
🦋 Flexible Plans Are the Best Plans
While it’s great to have a must-see list, keep your day loose and open to surprises. If your kid is vibing with the butterflies, let them linger. If they’re ready to bolt after 15 minutes, call it a day. You’ll have a much better experience if you follow their lead.
🎠 Expect the Unexpected
You may find yourself soothing a meltdown because the carousel goes too fast or skipping the tractor square dancing because a surprise fascination with ducks has taken over. The Farm Show is unpredictable, and that’s part of the fun. (Well, mostly fun. Sometimes mildly infuriating. But mostly fun.)
💌 Remember, You’re Doing Great
If the Farm Show feels like too much, that’s OK. If you go and it’s a disaster, that’s OK too. Parenting is about trying, learning, and rolling with the chaos. Whether you’re snuggling goats or spending the day at home, you’re making the right call for your family.
So grab your spoons, pack your patience, and embrace the Farm Show—or don’t. Either way, you’re crushing this parenting thing. 🥄✨
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